The question comes up regularly, sometimes wrapped carefully, sometimes quite directly: What is possible at PURE when it comes to BDSM and fetish? I'm happy to answer openly, because an honest answer helps everyone more than a vague "let's see".
First, what is fixed. Bondage, restraints and anything that restricts a lady's freedom of movement do not exist at PURE. That includes combinations with a blindfold or similar. No cleverly worded request changes that. With us, nothing ranks above the wellbeing and safety of our ladies. How could we entrust something this sensitive to a gentleman we don't know? Trust cannot be claimed, it has to grow.
Even where two people already know each other, after many dates together, and would like to try something new, the limit stays the same: nothing that confines her, nothing that endangers her safety or health.
What is possible is the gentle side. A firmer grip, a playful slap on the bottom, outfits in leather or latex. That is usually no problem, but it needs preparation. We deliberately do without service lists. So all the more: wishes belong on the table beforehand, as precisely as possible, down to the smallest detail. I pass these details on to the lady, because she decides whether she can imagine it. A no is a no and is not renegotiated.
It helps to know that many ladies are less familiar with these practices than gentlemen assume. That is perfectly fine and one more reason to take it slowly. At the same time, I often hear from the ladies that they enjoy being led. Some have a submissive streak, and many like trying something new when the feeling is right.
And that is the point I'd like gentlemen to take with them: dominance does not mean simply doing and imposing. Leadership is something you earn, through attentiveness and reliability. Only then can a lady truly let go. Whoever has understood that does not need restraints.
If you have wishes, write them to us beforehand, honestly and in detail. We read them seriously and without raised eyebrows. What fits, we discuss. What doesn't, we say clearly.
Discreetly yours,
Lena