Again and again, this question lands in my inbox: "May I transfer something in advance?"
Some gentlemen want to send the gift beforehand, on purpose. As a gesture, a small advance of trust. I appreciate that. Others would like to transfer only a part, usually because they have been burned before. Photos that had nothing to do with reality. A door opening onto someone entirely different. The idea behind it is simple: if the lady does not match what was promised, he may decline the date. No discussion.
I understand this completely. In an age of AI images and filters, deception has become more everyday than ever. Being careful is not distrust. It is good judgment.
I also know that not everyone knows the story of PURE. Not everyone knows what I stand for. That is exactly why this topic is no problem for me. It is part of building trust, and that applies to both sides. Anyone who knew PURE in the past knows which values stand behind it. It is one of the reasons the reins are back in my hands.
I stand here not only with my name, but with my face.
That includes how we choose. Personally. Not every lady who applies receives the paperwork and a place with us. To be honest, and to share a little behind the scenes: it is roughly three out of ten. Pictures can be faked, even application pictures. Presence cannot. And that is where every lady has to get past me, in person. That is what sets us apart from portals where everyone lists herself and nobody looks twice.
Integrity is what matters most to me, as an owner and as a person. Anyone who cheats with their photos will not win anyone over with authenticity.
So here is the clear answer: advance payment is not taboo with us. Ask me openly, and I will answer openly. Ten toes down, with my name and my face.
Discreetly yours,
Lena