GFE vs PSE
The numbers are in. 53 percent of you chose the Girlfriend Experience, and around one in five wanted both in turn. I asked in Girlfriend Experience oder Pornstar Experience? Ehrlich jetzt., and I admit: the majority surprised me least.
When you meet a lady for the first time, you want to treat her with respect and give her time. What is warm and familiar feels like the more courteous way to begin an evening. Still waters, as they say. The Girlfriend Experience is exactly that: an attitude, not an order. The remaining votes went to the Pornstar Experience, which I also understand as an atmosphere. More play, more confidence, more stage.
What truly surprised me was the fifth who alternate. I was convinced that most gentlemen have their line and stick to it. But spaghetti every single day is, sooner or later, just noodles with sauce. Perhaps these gentlemen have simply understood that a person is not the same every evening. How this connects to the question of staying with one lady or following your curiosity, I described in Immer dieselbe Dame oder jedes Mal eine neue? Wer ist der bessere Gentleman?.
And then there is a thought I have carried around since the results. It seems to me that softness is often seen as weakness today, and many women prefer to lay it aside. I only half understand that. Being gentle does not cost strength, it takes strength. And a gentleman likes to lead, but only where someone gives him the room to. One needs the other. It is no rule, just a thought on a quiet November morning.
Our poll is of course not representative, that would be an exaggeration. It is a small, anonymous circle, but it matters to me. Thank you for taking part. If you would like to read up on the terms in peace, you will find them in the Escort Glossary.
And one more thing that is on my mind this Saturday: Tomorrow is our next photo shoot, with three new ladies for our gentlemen in Escort Stuttgart and the surrounding region.. Outside it is a lovely, clear November day, and I have a feeling it will be truly cozy. Warm light, soft fabrics, plenty of calm. I won't give away more today. You will see the results as soon as they are ready, unfiltered, as always.
Discreetly yours,
Lena